I spent a really long time…trying make everyone happy.

I grew up in a very pleasant home.  My parents worked really hard for everything that we had.  We were, for the most part comfortable.  (There was a heavy poverty mentality which we will chat about later..)  

But I grew up thinking the way my parents did out of FEAR.  I didn’t want them to get mad.  I just learned to bury my beliefs and opinions deep to avoid any confrontation.  Even when I felt strongly the opposite of the way they felt.  I adapted some self image issues that my mom had - that I didn't even realize until much later.. 

And I quit.  Over and over.  Give up on my goals and dreams and things I aspired to do because someone else didn't like it.  Or someone else thought it was a dumb idea.  I remember in 7th grade... I decided to go out for the cheer team and I actually made it!   And for just a short time I thought about some friends I had that were not in to those same things.  Would they be mad at me for doing this??  

People Pleasers listen up... you can't make everyone happy.  That's not your job.  It's time to step up and step in to who you are! Shine YOUR light SO bright!!  The world NEEDS you to! Let's run together... You and Me!  You in?

I have a community of people supporting one another in this thing called LIFE as natural as we possibly can... You should pop in!! 

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